no no phases i like them both at the sametime i meanu only live once right?

Lol I was actually thinking this too!  

a person who is attracted to transexuals too, Madhero, is called a pansexual because it's very different to like just boys and just girls and to like a person no matter what they got between their legs. as far as the question goes I tend to go in spurts sexually but relationship-wise I tend to stick with the gentlemen just because I tend to be more compatible with them. Idk if anyone else is like that (leaning more toward one gender but still being sexually attracted to both)

Lol

I reckon a persons 'natural instinct / preference' is determined at birth and is formed INDEPENDENTLY of your gender at the time. This will either flourish or be suppressed depending on social conditioning according to the culture you grow up in. Just thinks its kinda funny how majority of boys aged say 4-8 think kissing girls is 'yucky' yet seem to get 'activated' from say 10 upwards and see the light so to speak. Me personally, I first kissed a portugese girl when I was about 7 in a concrete tunnel, part of a playground near my house at the time. It was nice but no tongues ;) Also I remember age six fancyin the pants of my scottish PE teacher Rosaline ( fit blondie, lol ). Was always obsessed with girls ;)